Showing posts with label immigration. Show all posts
Showing posts with label immigration. Show all posts

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Fourth of July Madness


  Hi darlings! So how did you celebrate the 4th of July yesterday? I bet you had a blast too just like me. We went to the frog pond up North and brought our tents and met up some good friends of my husband.



  The first part of the day after setting up our tents, husband and friends went shooting at a few exploding targets.

  The last part of the day, Husband and his friend Robin, light up some fireworks while me and the rest enjoyed watching it from the camp. I had to hurry though because I forgot to charge my camera. Lucky, I was still able to get a good shot out of it.
  All in all, we all enjoyed we got to get out of the city and be with nature. Despite the scorching heat in the afternoon and getting ourselves wet from the storm that hit the camp last night, it was all worth it.




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Sunday, July 1, 2012

Ready for Summertime


       There is no better way to beat the scorching summer heat than a day in the pool. I lived in the southern part of the Philippines before I got here but I hate to admit it I don't know how to swim. I am not patient and brave enough to allow myself to be under these waters. I can't hold my breath that long. I don't know how to keep myself afloat neither. All I can do is some few kicks when using the floaters or stay in the water while seeing other people swim. Thanks to my sunblock, my bottled water and my shades I can already stay comfortable all summer long. So how are you coping the summer heat?



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Tuesday, June 26, 2012

What Makes a Filipina Unique & Special

It's been six months since I got here in the USA. I have made some personal observations and that includes comparing myself to the people in general here. These observations might not be applicable to all.

1. My husband finds it amazing that I can pick things up with my feet specifically with my toes. I have a small feet, but I am still adept at picking stuff up with them or I just have pretty good amount of control that I can easily curl or fan them.

2. This next mannerism that I want to stop is when I pout and point with my lips. Every time I do this, I will leave them wondering as to what I really want them to do. I just find it easier to purse my lips especially when it takes time for my mind to describe the object or person. Husband jokingly warned me not to do this in public because they might think I am asking for a kiss.

3. I don't know how to stop making "sitsit" or "psst". It's kinda hard especially when we grew up doing this. For me, it's the fastest good attention seeking speech.Oh by the way, I still say "aray" when I get hurt.

4. Our country is surrounded by seas and oceans, but only a few knows how to swim. I really envy those little kids whom my husband calls the " Sea Diving Gypsies" or in our term the Badjaos and Samals who live in houses that stands on stilts over the water beside the sea . They can dive without any diving equipment.

5. I still cannot stand not having a rice in my meal. Its just that every time I skip the rice and eat the American food, my tummy starts to complain. I tried explaining that what they have for lunch or dinner like hamburger, pizza, taco or hotdog are just our snack food in the Philippines. I am just lucky that my husband is not a picky eater. He is flexible to both Filipino and American food. I am also a fruit eater.

6.  We eat with a  spoon and fork, while they can comfortably eat with only a fork. We can also eat with our hands or with one foot up the chair.

7.  I am still super "matampuhin" (sulky, sensitive). Hubby will have to study more on this Filipina trait, he tends to become easily impatient. I believe our husbands should understand that sometimes we are just longing for some sweetness in the relationship. They don't really know how hard it is to be living in a foreign land with nobody except for your partner. It is healthy to be "matampuhin" sometimes, but not too much.

8. We are always proud of our man. No matter what his weaknesses or shortcomings might be, still we can say to the whole world how lucky we are to have such an amazing person to spend the rest of our lives with. We easily forgive and forget.

9. Since I am not employed yet, hubby finds it cute that I always look at him first before grabbing an item that I want into the shopping cart as if I am seeking for approval. I guess I am just a considerate type of person before making my husband spend on something for me I make sure that he has extra for these not so basic needs. It is usually girl stuff but he would always say that he would buy anything for me if he can afford it. Sweet!

10. We Pinays are conscious of how we look. We are not contented with only looking at the mirror inside the bathroom before leaving, we still look at mirrors inside of the car. Hey, we don't just want to look ugly.  We like to idolize celebrities or famous people and somehow would copy how they do their hairstyles, make-up or even how they dress up. They say we always check the labels of the clothes to see where it is made from. We don't want to get burn from staying under the sun. It's easy for White Americans to be laying all day and sunbathing because they can go back to their original color in no time, while we Pinays it took even a long time to achieve this color we have now, not to mention all the skin whitening products we used when we were still in the Philippines.

11. We like cooking. I am no chef but I am proud to say that my husband and family loves my cooking. I sometimes look up for simple recipes then as soon as I have the ingredients I tried cooking or baking them. If I can, I usually make Filipino recipes for them.  Believe it or not, it's only here that I can cooked decent meals. It's something I started love doing especially for people I love.

12. We are not difficult to please. One bar of Snickers can make me already smile or just even when hubby volunteers to help me with the chores.
 
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Thoughts?
What do you think makes you distinct among other nationality aside from the ones above? Are you proud to have these Filipino traits?

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Me, shooting again!




Last weekend, we went shooting again with hubby and my stepson Alex. I was so excited because that time I already printed out some targets I can shoot on. I was able to shoot using the Glock 9mm, AK47 and the AK22. AK47 was so loud it got me scared though. Haha! Anyways, here are two videos that they took.





Oh by the way, I ended up shooting all the soil, like tilling the soil for gardening. Lol!
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Tuesday, November 8, 2011

CFO Stamp

I would like to share for those who are going to have their FIANCEE or SPOUSE/IR-CR1 Visa the following information regarding how to get the stamp on your passport before leaving the country.





Note: Be prepared to know details about your foreign partner such as contact number, degree earned in college, other contact numbers of family in the USA, where did you meet, how long is the relationship and so on.

I have read few people who went directly to NAIA terminal on the day of their departure for the stamp, but I don't want to take that risk. I still plan to have it done before going to the airport.








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Thursday, September 22, 2011

Medical Exam Experience (Part 1)

I just want to share my medical exam experience at St. Luke's Medical Center Extension Clinic last September 19, 2011. By the way, SLMCEC is located at 1177 J. Bocobo Street, Ermita, Manila. They can be reached by telephone at 521-0020 and 521-8647. They are open from 6:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. For me, it is best to arrive for your medical examination before 6:00 a.m., but for some they say after 1:00 p.m. Tuesday through Thursday after all we will go back the next day for the result. Don't go on a Friday because it's normally a two day ordeal which means you don't need to stay for the weekend when you are not from Manila or travel again by bus to come back before the second day if you live in a nearby province. Applicants are served on a first come first served basis, but the order of release of the medical reports will depend on the complexity of the results of the medical examination. Please note that I am not an expert on this matter, some facts here may not be applicable to you.

Things to bring to making the days so much easier for you:
1. Appointment Letter-original and photocopied or NOA2 letter and NVC Letter with MNL Case No. Those with no interview schedule yet will be asked to sign a form at the receiving counter.
2. Passport-(valid at least 6 months)
3. Four colored pictures (2 inches x 2 inches) with a white background. Print your full name at the back. For photo requirements, click here
4.Medical Examination Fee- $213.35 (15 yrs old and older) and $185.35 (under 15 yrs of age). SLMCEC does not accept credit card or dollar payments. The fees must be paid in Philippine pesos at the prevailing exchange rate.
5. Black ballpens-not the sign pen
6. Folder or envelope- to place and safekeep the documents during the exam.
7. Snacks and bottled drinking water- Although,at the entrance there is a sign there that says " No food and drinks allowed" I was able to bring mine inside even the guard saw it when he inspected my bag. I guess you just have to keep it inside the bag and drink or eat discreetly.
8. Bring umbrella- It wasn't raining when I went out of the hotel but as soon as we were falling in line outside the clinic it started to rain so hard and I was too scared to leave the line because there were already a commotion going on regarding who comes first. And you guess it right! I stayed in line outside the building, under the rain without an umbrella. You never know when it is going to rain!
9. Jacket-to keep you warm
10. Magazine,book,gadget- that will keep you entertained while waiting for your name to be called. I had no worry about this because I easily made new friends when I was falling in line.

Hotels near SLMCEC with current rates:
1. Lotus Garden Hotel (P2250) Tel. - This is where I stayed for the duration of my medical exam. SLMCEC is just around the corner from this hotel. Free buffet breakfast, free wifi access inside the room (which is also one important factor for me because I can chat with my hubby every night or as soon as I am done with the exam), free toiletries, and Robinson's Mall is just walking distance too! *Just be careful not to wear the hotel's slippers because they will charge you P200 for it. That is already too pricey for me for just a room slippers so I brought my own.
2. Paragon Tower Hotel (P2,464) Tel.526-5541 to 47
3. Citystate Tower Hotel (P1,750) Tel. 400-7351 to 61
4. Grandprix Manila- (P799-Easy Bed) (P1500-Superior) Tel.353-3319 and 353-3323
5. City Garden Suites- (P2,300) Tel. 536-1451 and 526-0959
6. Tropical Mansion- (P1,000)

I arrived Sunday, a day before my planned medical exam. After checking in my luggage at the hotel, I went to inspect the area outside the hotel and the way going to the clinic. SLMCEC has no name outside the building. It is more like a gray hotel with glass exterior. I took a picture so you will have an idea in case it is already your turn to have your medical exam. Then, I went to have my lunch-dinner at the Robinson's Mall.


FIRST DAY:
I arrived at St. Luke's at 3:30 a.m. I was hoping I'd be the first or even the first five on the line, but when I got there I was already no.24. Unfortunately, it rained and so some people were already starting several lines which cause the arguments because our batch that came earlier was now the last people in line, but it was settled that we're really the first to get inside. I had no umbrella that time and was too scared to be walking away from the line. Anyway after patiently waiting for almost two hours outside the building (under the rain!) we were finally moving to get inside. The guard at the entrance will give your number as long as you have completed with the requirements.
For us ladies, take note of the first day of the last menstrual period. They will be asking you this several times along the whole process so be very consistent with the date. You will also be NOT allowed to have the physical exam during your menstrual period even when you are only having the last few days or spotting. So if you want to save time and effort, plan the medical exam at least a week after or before your period.
Be sure to eat a meal before going to the medical exam. It might take you up to seven hours to finish the first day of the exam and surely the long waits will make you hungry.
1. After giving the guard the appointment letter with the photocopy, the passport with the photocopy, he gave me no.24 and a form called Patient Data Sheet (PDS) and the other guard at the entrance door stamped my right hand after checking the contents of my bag. I should only fill out questions with check marks. Under “Alien Case No.”, I put the MNL Case no. Don’t forget to sign at the back of the PDS form.

2. When the staff calls the number, we are asked to fall in line front of the counters usually by batches of 10. When it was my turn, I was asked to have another picture taken because my ears were not clearly shown, but the staff was nice enough and told me I can do it during the releasing of the result. I told him it was the same photos we sent to the NVC, but he warned me that the US Embassy is stricter than the National Visa Center. For those with the acceptable photos, the two photos will be stapled on the PDS and the other two will be on a resealable plastic and stapled. So I thanked him for that. He asked me to look at the cam and had my Digital Picture taken while I was seated. They also asked me about the degree I finished in college. He instructed me to put my right index on the fingerprint scanner four times. After a few questions, he told me to process to the cashier to pay the medical fees located at located at the 5th floor. By the way, for Immigrant Applicants I wasn't aware that we can already do it faster because we can fill out the form online and we have a separate window for online web registration. Click here

3. I took the elevator going to the 5th floor and at the corner, just right beside the elevator I found the cashier and handed her the documents and payment in peso. At that time, I paid P9,174.00.


4. I was asked to proceed to the 3rd floor for the X-ray. I gave the set of papers to the nurse at the reception and was asked to fill out a form and instructed to put the first day of the LMP at the upper corner of the page then affix my signature, then I waited for my name to be called. When I was called, we were instructed to change into hospital gowns and to not tie the back part of the gown. We disrobed our upper garments, no bra, necklace allowed and hair should be tied up. I used a hair clamp because I have long hair and it was easier for me. I then waited at the waiting area for my name to be called for the X-ray. When it was my turn, the nurse positioned me and asked me to check the names located at upper front of the machine. She told me to inhale deeply, hold my breath then exhale. I went to put back my clothes and went back to the reception. I told her I have the old films, but she firmly said that they will not accept it, then she told me to proceed to the 4th floor.

5. When I was at the 4th floor, I gave the set of documents to the nurse at the reception. I was told to sit down and wait for my name to be called. After a few minutes, she called my name and have the fingerprint scanning done and gave me back my papers and pointed the blood extraction room and wait for my turn there.
6. The nurse asked a few questions before the collection of the blood sample. She asked me my name and first day of LMP. She asked me to breathe deeply, then she was already getting a few millimeters of blood. She told me to press the cotton ball firmly for a few minutes and instructed to proceed to the Urine Collection Area. The staff gave me a small plastic container with my name on top of the cover. She said they will just need a few samples of the urine so no need to fill up the whole container. I handed her back the sample then washed my hands then instructed to go to the 5th floor.


7. At the 5th floor, there were two counters. I walked towards the US counter that is located at the right side and handed my set of papers to the staff. She asked me to sit and wait for my name to be called. When I was called, I waited outside the door of the Visual Exam Room. The nurse called my name and asked me to go inside a dark lit room. Only the computer screen and the Snellen chart is lighted. They measured my body weight and height then asked to sit down on a chair with a Snellen chart behind me. I was looking at the Snellen chart from a mirror view. I mentioned the letter as soon as she pointed it. I couldn't see the one letter she pointed. Guess, I am not 20/20 vision anymore.
8. I went back to the US Counter staff again and asked me to sit down and wait for the taking of vital signs. After several minutes, my name was called and the nurse took my blood pressure and pulse rate then asked me to give the set of papers to the US Counter staff again. She then made me wait and be seated at chair just outside the cubicle no. 6 for the physical exam.
9. The sign at the door of cubicle no.6 says Dr. Maab. Don't worry about getting naked; all female applicants will only be assigned to a female doctor. So after the prior lady applicant got out of the cubicle, I went in, smiled and greeted the doctor. She smiled back and asked me questions such as if ever I had previous pregnancies, LMP, surgeries and different diseases. She made me signed a logbook then asked me to undress completely and change into a hospital gown located at the foot of the bed. There's a curtain between the doctor's desk and the bed. She told me to leave the gown untied at the back and lie down on the bed. She examined both my ears/earlobes (I believed it was for checking earring holes that might have infected.), throat (for any swollen nodes), neck (for any suicidal attempts), breasts (for any lumps), wrists and arms (for any suicidal attempts and/or use of drugs). She pulled up the gown and checked my abdomen for any scars if I had any operation. Lastly, she made me lay on my left side with my knees close to my torso somewhat like a fetal position. She spread my butt cheeks and examined my anus for any hemorrhoids and my private part for any other possible infection. After changing back my clothes, she asked me to go to the 2nd floor for the Immunization Interview.

10. At the second floor, I gave the set of papers to the reception and told me to sit and wait for my name to be called. I waited for more than an hour here! The doctor plainly asked me if I had the diseases she mentioned, LMP and last contact, if I had chicken pox before and I showed her the scar. She told me that I should only be getting two vaccines when the result of my medical exams is OK. She told me to check out at the reception. The staff at the reception area gave me back the receipt, the appointment letter (or NOA2/NVC letter), passport, and the claim stub that is written in English and two other dialects. She instructed me to come back tomorrow at 9:00 a.m. for the result.
Copy of receipt
Copy of Claim Stub
Appointment Letter page 1
Appointment Letter page 2
Map to St. Luke's

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to be continued...

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

One Step Closer

I can't tell you how badly I have wanted to write this post over the last few weeks. But today I can tell you that we have the good news! Thank God we got the schedule for my interview already! Woohoo! We have been waiting for almost a year now since we filed last November 2010 and it feels like forever but now we are one step closer to be together. I still need to pass the medical and interview though. I am getting nervous and excited. Yay! Till then... Wish me luck!



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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Visa Taking Forever! What’s Going On?

Guys, it's almost August once again! We're past the 7-month mark now and we still don't know what we can expect from the status of our visa. This is already a burden to me and especially to my dear husband! It seems like everything they require will expire before I even got the visa. Every time they require something, they wait for one month to ask for the next thing. It sure seems to take a toll on our nerves. I am almost going nutty with the wait! Anyway, we are still waiting for their reply once they get hold of the documents before forwarding it to the Manila Embassy. We filed last November of 2010 and still waiting.
I will be sharing you some information and tips on how to save time and $$$ in case you are about to file a visa or still in the early process of filing. We did the IR/CR -1 (Immediate Relative/Conditional Resident) Visa. Since we are not yet 2 years from the time we got married, that makes me under the CR-1 Visa.

Birth Certificate- It is an advantage if you have extra copies of your birth certificate certified by the National Statistics Office. You may apply in person in any NSO office or have it delivered to you thru their online website. But since I don't like the long queues and I was often at the mall when I was in Manila last year, I got my copies thru SM Business Center in Mall of Asia or any branch. It's like working with the papers as we shop! You just simply need to sign the forms, make the payments, and then come back after a few days. For a P160 pesos per copy and 5 business days of waiting you can already obtain the documents without standing all day long in NSO offices. I had more than 6 copies of this document since I had to send few copies for my husband. You will also need to submit one of each when you apply for a new passport, CFO seminar, etc. By the way, you will also need an original or original certified copy of your husband's birth certificate that you will need during the interview.

Marriage Certificate- same with the Birth certificate, I got mine thru SM Business Center. I also made sure that I made extra copies because they will really ask for a copy every time you need to apply for a new identification card and you want now to use your married name like PRC, SSS, Passport, etc.

Cenomar- I had two copies of the Certificate of No Marriage before I got married here in the Philippines. We had to submit a copy at the Local Civil Registrar when we filed for the marriage license. But I read in the VJ site that some Consular Officer will ask you to still show this even when you are already married and you brought with you your Marriage Certificate. I am not sure the reason/s behind but I think they want to make sure that you were really single before you married your foreign husband.

NBI Clearance- I really believe you need two copies of this document. One is for your husband so he can send it to the National Visa Center when they are already asking for the original documents. And two, at the interview before you can get inside the building the guards will ask you to present a valid NBI Clearance together with other documents. Be sure that your NBI clearances are still valid or still not almost to expire.

Tax Records- You may do this ahead of time while waiting for the approval from the USCIS. This is one of the causes of the delay in our case. The legal assistants did not ask us to prepare while we were just in the waiting period. Your husband should get the latest 3 years tax transcripts and W2's if possible. My in-laws are my co-sponsors because my hubby was not earning enough not until last year. We also asked the tax records of my in-laws which took weeks before the Bureau of Tax sent it. Don't forget that if you have a co-sponsor, you will also need their birth certificates. They want to make sure that the sponsors are religiously paying their taxes.

Employment Letter/Certification-Remind your husband (and co-sponsor) to request from their company's Human Resources Department for an Employment Certification. It should include the name of your husband, title, date of employment and current salary (if salary is hourly, include the number of hours worked per week) signed by an officer of the company using the company's letterhead.

The days are going by so slow… the wait is unbearable. The unbearable part of it all is it could come any day now until whenever! So close yet so far. All I think about is this. I didn't expect the wait to be so difficult! I wish I can get over this stage this year. But I am willing to wait; it will be worth it because I know my husband is waiting for me at the other side of this planet. Oh well, I am still trying to be positive. Fingers crossed indeed!